Do you ever
want to talk to someone really bad, but you're at war with yourself because you
don't want to annoy them? Yeah, me, too. Eventually you give in, you text them
and get nothing back after a long time, if at all; it hurts, right? Especially
when you know that they're the kind of person who always has their phone attached to their hip. Being ignored sucks. Sometimes
you just want to go full stalker mode and talk to their friends, find out what
they're doing, why they aren't texting you. It's a girl thing. Or maybe it's
just me and I'm some kind of stalker freak, I don't know. But I'm sure I'm not
the only one who's felt the sting of being ignored by someone whom you really
want to talk to.
One of the
worst feelings is when they initiate hanging out with you sometime earlier that
week or even earlier in the day, and then when it comes time to when they
wanted to hang out, they suddenly fall off the face of the earth. No amount of
texts or phone calls will work. You're sitting there pouting because you got
your hopes up and your makeup all done. You go back into that vicious circle of
internally beating yourself up because you want to keep texting them, hoping
they'll take the necessary 30 seconds to type out a response. That's what I
don't understand: unless you're asleep or at work where you can't have a phone
out or something along those lines, I doubt anyone is so busy all day long that they can't take a
simple 30 seconds to a minute, at most, to at least say hey. Men, I swear. They
just don't get it.
Another
issue is when you're hanging out with a friend, and they're constantly texting
their significant other. The catch is, when they're hanging out with said
other, obviously they're "way too busy" to text you, right? Wrong.
That's total bullshit in my opinion. And, quite frankly, it's really
inconsiderate. Why even hang out if you're just going to be talking to a
billion other people, but then ignore everyone else when you're with that one
"special" person? I realize the person they're with might not
appreciate them texting either, but why should they think it's okay to do one
thing to one person or not the other? It's just not fair. I hope some of you
can relate to my little ranting session.
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